When I first found out about my partner's cross-dressing I searched the web for sites that could help me understand or explain what was going on.
If not explaining to me what was happening, at least it was a way of letting me know there were other people in the same situation; that partners did stay together; that like any relationship, love, understanding, compromise and communication are very important.
The Agender library contains the following books we recommend:
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